13 Sex Secrets Men Don't Know About Women

Women don't like explosions, in art or in life.
Women aren't as funny as men. We're often cleverer, frequently wittier, but to be really funny demands a certain clownishness that our grace just does not allow. It's fine, really it is.
We grow pathetic goatees and look awful in cargo shorts anyway.
Women are aware of about 10 percent of the things men actually think and say about us. Best to keep it under five.
Women love to be taken out to eat. It makes our day.
A clean apartment will get you more tail than you'd think.
Given the chance, women will smell and re-smell the scented-candle display at the store. We really can do this for ages.
Our clothes are complicated, our shoes unforgiving, and our constitutions delicate, so please, valet park.
Every living woman likes wedding crap. Even lesbians.
"Girls night out" is usually some other woman's idea.
Oftentimes, women simply want to lie back and get laid.
One orgasm is usually enough.
Women would rather be with you. We like you. Honestly, we talk about you all the time.

10 Ways to Have Better Sex, According to Science -Part 10

 

 

Get Her Pregnant (On Purpose)

 

"If you're trying to impregnate your wife or girlfriend, stop thrusting immediately after ejaculating. The shape of your penis... was designed by natural selection to work as a retraction device, removing competing males' sperm from your female partner's vaginal tract. So if you keep going at it after you've achieved orgasm, you're basically disadvantaging your own reproductive success.

10 Ways to Have Better Sex, According to Science -Part 7

 

 

 

 

Create a Mood — Turn the Lights Down

 

"For women to get aroused, parts of their brains associated with stress and anxiety need to de-activate, according to neurological studies in the Netherlands. If women aren't relaxed, they're not going to enjoy sex. So dim the lights and share a fantasy. A Harvard study found that when you hug a woman longer than thirty seconds, it increases her oxytocin levels and anticipation of sex

 

 

 

10 Ways to Have Better Sex, According to Science -Part 6

 

 

 

Take a Shower

 

"There's no proven human pheromone to make you irresistible... So, until one is found, wash well — you can have too much of a good thing. (But why not leave a worn T-shirt at her house? It will keep you always in her mind.)

10 Ways to Have Better Sex, According to Science -Part 5

 

 

 

Take Your Time Undressing

 

"There is a degree of manipulation when it comes to the amount of neurotransmitter released... Looking at a nude picture will trigger a quick and strong release of dopamine and possibly oxytocin, but it fades quickly... Let her work for it a little; she'll enjoy the prolonged neurological orgasm more

10 Ways to Have Better Sex, According to Science -Part 4

 

 

 

Bring the Kitchen into the Bedroom

 

"Arginine is the basis for Viagra, so men should stick with foods high in it — such as oysters, fish, and other lean proteins. Everything that's good for you above the waist is good for you below the waist as well: greens and beans; high protein/low-fat foods; and brightly colored fruits and vegetables, high in antioxidants. The Standard American Diet is ... a detriment to performance.

 

10 Ways to Have Better Sex, According to Science -Part 3

 

Touch Her Everywhere (with Oil)

"Sensual touching releases a powerful sex hormone called oxytocin, which increases a woman's testosterone levels and ignites her sex drive. The seductive silky feel of oil being rubbed on skin is a turn-on for more passionate sex — for both of you

10 Ways to Have Better Sex, According to Science -Part 2

 

Use Your Ears

"The only difference between a gigolo and a regular guy is that a gigolo listens to what a woman wants in bed. So, ask. I would also advise that you to ask her while not in the bedroom — raise the discussion while out walking or doing some other casual yet intimate thing together.

10 Ways to Have Better Sex, According to Science -Part 1

 

Tell Her She Looks (and Tastes) Great

"It's been proven that women who feel confident about the appearance of their genitals are more open to different kinds of sexual activity, and are more likely to orgasm because they feel relaxed... When a man goes down on his partner, he should be enthusiastic, tell her how beautiful she is and how great she tastes. Don't treat it like a chore."